Elderly abuse is practiced significantly but seldom talked about. A report by the Government of Canada reveals that about 45% of seniors report experiencing some form of abuse from the age of 65 onward, while many cases even go unreported. Elderly people are victims of physical, emotional, financial and even sexual abuse. This dramatically affects their mental and physical health, leaving them helpless.
As June is World Elder Abuse Awareness Month, we bring to light the crimes happening against older communities and encourage citizens to take action against them. Here is a guide to preventing elderly abuse:
Recognize the Abuse
As a friend, neighbor or family member, observe whether you see the difference in the older adult’s behavior. Also, look for unexplained bruises or cuts or symptoms of depression or trauma. If you witness anything peculiar, immediately talk to them. Ask them about the condition at home and their relationship with family members. Do not ask direct questions as they would be scared to answer or hesitate. Make them feel comfortable and have a conversation.
Have Transparent Communication
If the older adult is your close one, it won’t be challenging to communicate transparently with them. If you see them crying, feeling isolated or scared, you can ask them what is wrong and who is bothering them. Some people take advantage of older adults financially, especially if they have dementia. They don’t remember things and lose their money to fraudsters, which can lead to fights at home. In such cases, try to understand their perspective. Talk to them and ask what’s upsetting them. Let them open up gradually, and accordingly, take action.
Ask About Their Well-being
Maybe you live in another city or country, which makes it challenging to keep track of your loved ones’ well-being. Generally, older adults are likely to feel lonely and face many health challenges. It becomes essential for you to check on them and ensure that they are safe and healthy. If you have a caretaker or any family member at home, maybe you want to know if the older adult is getting along well and that they are not being harassed. This will make your loved ones comfortable, secure, heard and wanted.
Report Abuse When Witnessed
As a friend, neighbor, caretaker, or family member, if you witness any kind of abuse against an older adult, report them immediately. Older adults might be scared to reveal it, or if they have dementia, they might even forget about the instances of abuse. Hence, do not hesitate to take proactive steps and save them from further abuse.
Assist During Tough Times
Older adults may be too vulnerable to express what’s happening to them. However, it gets evident in their behavior, health and communication. You must recognize it and assist them. If you are a friend, talk to their family members, and if you are a family member, speak to a counselor. Ensure that they are getting proper assistance.
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