The effort of providing our elderly loved ones socialization should not just fall on their shoulders or their companions and caregivers. We should also take some responsibilities and initiate the connection. Strong social connections are proven to improve senior citizens’ mental and physical health. Even the simple act of talking to our older family members reduces their chances of feeling lonely, anxious, and depressed. So, let’s start reconnecting with our elderlies. Here are some conversation starters you can use to reconnect with them:
Ask About Their Time: “What Was Our Town Like in Your Days?”
This simple question will open up a box full of sweet memories. You can try to find photos online that will help your elders jog memory lane. You will learn about them and their history. Your conservation with them will give you a sense of their perspective.
Ask About Their Experience: “What Was Your Experience During the Moon Landing?”
Asking them about their experience will give you some insight into their life that you may not know. Conversations like these make you feel closer and connected with your older family members and give them a chance to talk about their happy memories too.
Ask About the Things They Love: “Where Did You Learn to Do That?”
Ask your elderly loved ones to teach you their hobbies. In return, you can teach them a skill you are well versed in, allowing you to explore their personality. In addition, spending some time with them and doing an activity they love will surely cheer them up.
Ask About Your Ancestors: “Where Is Our Family From?”
This will give you both the chance to discover your forgotten family roots. It could also allow your elders to pass down their cherished family traditions. If you need some help getting started, many ancestral sites will let you research your family tree and ancestors.
Ask Them About Their Trip: “Where Was Your Recent Outing?”
Let them recollect their recent trip, even if it’s a walk to the park. Have fun listening to their stories. If they haven’t been out in a long time, take them out on a small picnic in your local garden, park, or museum, and make new memories with them.
These tips are how to start conversations and reconnect with your loved ones. Let the conversation flow like water, and be amazed by the stories you hear. Cherokee Angel Senior Care and Training Center provides care and companionship for your elders. Our staff is trained to look after your older family members and ensure they are in good hands. Reach us to learn more about our services.